Forbes, December 14, 2006
To write about the natural history of games and play, I decided to consult an expert. The other day, as I was twirling my 5-year-old daughter around so that she could pretend she could fly with her fairy wings, I asked her why she likes to play.
Charlotte flew on in silence for a moment. I could tell my question seemed strange to her. “Everyone likes to play,” she said. “Except for grown-ups.”
I suppose the thought of not playing is just too absurd for a 5-year-old to take seriously. Play is a kind of lingua franca for children. Charlotte gets a bit shy when we visit friends, but if there’s a child in the house who’s ready to share a train set or a princess costume, she takes off in a sprint. I might as well have asked her why she eats or sleeps.